In the same way that locks are only really designed to keep out honest people, this ‘dramatic’ change to how Facebook operates will, in reality, be of minimal effect.
We’ve discussed the (lack of) privacy of material posted on the world’s largest social network before. Birds gotta fly, fish gotta swim, some people gotta SNOOP.
With Facebook, like everything from cars to massage oil, how you use it makes all the difference. And how you use it reflects your character, in my opinion.
There are plenty of fake profiles and stalking going on. Not just ex-spouses etc. Some social media battledogs like you-know-who admit they create fake profiles to ‘follow’ or ‘friend’ (as a verb!) their prey. We’ve seen that.
The rather odd spectacle of former ACT acolyte Clint Heine being pursued by an online adversary … now in the ongoing trainwreck of a couple of comment threads here at The Paepae (of all places) should be instructive.
Fake people are not the same as anonymous people, as I tried to explain here. Sometimes there are good reasons to remain anonymous.
But with impersonation, unless it’s art or satire (like the absolutely-superb-by-anyone’s-standards parodies: @DrBrash or @MayorEmanuel) the deceit is fatal to credibility (e.g. property spruiker Sean Wood’s sockpuppet performance as his own satisfied customer ‘MUFFIT’).
Call me naive (I’ve been called worse) but I put astro-turfing, the faking of grass roots support or a ‘movement’ in the same class. Deceit.
But things can evolve, like bacteria.
Facebook, so much a part of hundreds of millions of people’s lives, will of course, reflect humanity’s greatness and our wretchedness. What else should we expect?
– P
It’s about time.
Next, I’d like to see FaceBook allow statcounters to track back to it’s own pages that link to external sources, such as my blog. It is eternally frustrating to see incoming links from FB and have no idea which person is linking to my blog, or why, and seems to be contrary to the spirit of openess in the internet that many of us have been used to.
I really don’t like FaceBook. I have an account, but only for visibility. I thought it was cool at first, but then changed my mind.
Thanks for your comment.
Facebook is, let’s face it, a popular sensation. The blight of social media is, of course, over-sharing. (As bloggers we’re not immune, are we?) I sense that a lot of the ‘problems’ users face are self-inflicted.
In my own case, I take a bifurcated approach to FB: a personal, private page for family and real friends, and a page for this blog http://www.facebook.com/ThePaepae open to anyone interested —including several fake profiles.
Feel free to follow it …. 🙂
-P
I may take you up on that offer to follow ThePaepae. 🙂
Sorry for the grumpy comment. It didn’t seem that grumpy when I was typing it out! Ah, the dangers of interacting online …
Oh look:
https://twitter.com/CateOwen/statuses/224611328445251587
As I said: minimal changes.
Might be worth reading again the Press Council’s view of how What goes on
Tourerr, Facebook is fair game …http://www.thepaepae.com/a-friends-lament-facebook-to-newspaper/14305/
Peter, I guess the adversary is me, I actually deactivated my twitter and facebook pages, does a random stranger need to know how many cups of tea I’ve had, what I watched on TV, how much traffic I was stuck in or any of that nonsense?
In some ways I sympathise with Mr Heine and was admittedly angry with his rather bizzare theories, after a few days of reflection, it is quite obvious that he was trolling for attention and I was sucked in.
Facebook, twitter etc are useful for small business owners, musicians who want to plug an event or celebrities who likewise want to plug an event.
We don’t read books any more, we don’t buy a newspaper and spend time going through it properly, we’re too busy, we sit there ‘relaxing’ on a day off with our mobiles, i pads and blackberries and actually check our work inboxes.
I’ve noticed one thing about modern technology, my landline phone never rings, my 2 mobiles, e mail inbox etc are constantly clogged up with messages.
Social media sites are a way to make us all live in ‘Real time’ and for the powers that be to monitor us, Every time I have a week off work and switch my mobiles off, I notice after about 3 days, assuming I don’t resist the temptation, I actually speak to my neighbours, I might walk down to the pub, I get into a bit of gardening, I might even go through my albums and play that forgotten CD or even read a book.
Life is so much better when you take a step back from it.
Good insights. I think you’re right about the *attention* thing, judging by my own observations in the first place. (‘drunken yobos’, remember?)
I hope it doesn’t offend you for me to say: you certainly have appeared fixated with your argument with CH, but this latest comment ^ from you displays introspection and self-awareness which is refreshing to read. (Gawd, sorry if that sounds patronising — I don’t mean it to.)
Thanks for sharing.
I’m lucky to have kids who enjoy the library as I do … we still read dead tree books … but Facebook and Tumblr are my teenager’s hangout places (… when she’s not texting the kids she’d just been at school with all day!)
‘The unexamined life is not worth living’, as Socrates observed. Or not.
– P
Socrates never actually wrote anything down.
I might have been fixated but CH was a bit like one of those ‘relatives’…Uncle had a son etc that you meet on family reunions…bleats on and on and on about ‘hard work’ despite never have done any, we had a family member like that (Uncle moved to OZ etc), met him a couple of times, every time I wake up at 2am and flick through channels, it’s either a repeat of 90’s neighbours or Henry Kelly on ‘Going for gold’. just change channels, it reminds me of quality TV last time I saw him.
Moving with the times is difficult but saying goodbye to internet trolls is a bit like moving out of a student bedsit and never having to label your tin of beans again, CH did wind me up with his ‘Let the poor queue for food tokens’ bit, but even I realise he was just trolling and loved the feedback.
Guess I’m gullible for being so naive.
Facebook is more or less dead, in say 2008/09 it was a ‘must have’ or so we were sucked in to believ ing, 10 out 10 to Mr Zuckenberg for marketing strategy and to all those who made a fast buck from it.
The ‘friends’ we added were either family members we rarely see but really can if need be, work colleagues we wouldn’t stay in touch with if we went our seperate ways as we all have families/lives etc, school ‘mates’ we wouldn’t recogonise at a school re union which we wouldn’t go to anyway as ironically enough as you progress through life you meet different people, socialise with some, guard your privacy and most importantly cut out the dead wood, i.e delete mobile numbers you don’t remember etc.
The most ironic thing about facebook is that you would sometimes add a ‘friend’ you had never met and never in a million years would, then sometimes ‘unfriend’ them or they would ‘unfriend’ you, I think that says a lot.
How many people do you visit, eat out with, go for a day out with, go to the cinema with etc? In most cases you can count the number of friends you really have on one hand, it only takes four to carry your coffin or twelve to convict you.
If you have someones E mail, home phone number and have seen them in the last 6 months, they might just might be a ‘friend’, if you had forgotten all about them for the past 20 years and only got in touch through facebook but never got around to meeting up, forget it!
Facebook is dead, long live popping round to your mates house and going for a pub lunch while leaving your mobile at home.
There are only 24 hours in a day, facebook tried to create a ‘virtual world’ but failed by trying to cram a 25 hour day into 23, it had a good run and was top of the league for some time but ultimately it burned out.
So does this mean you will stop the online harassment David? Is it over?
Can I go back to Twitter (I gave my personal address away when I left NZ as it was a good name for a local tweeter) and can I go back online without you writing to my previous boss? Can you stop writing that I am an employee of a place I left over 9 months ago? Don’t lie you’re not on Facebook, Google alerted me to comments you made about me on it and I have screen grabs from comments you made about me in MAY this year.
Admit it, your obsession has not ended as I have just been alerted to at least a DOZEN more comments you have written. The last one was less than TEN DAYS AGO on MSN. I have had enough. I am going to start printing off all the pages of this latest silly buggers and will make an overseas call to the Met Police, who have all your 2008, 2009, 2010 and 2011 conversations with me via email/Facebook etc on file.
I’m a fair person. Go on, say it one more time that you’ll stop. You’ve only said it repeatedly for almost 4 years now and yet you slip back into habit. Finish this or I am going to finish it.